Here's some free advice for you: communication is important in relationships (including marriage). Behold an exchange from my house ("E" is my husband, "H" is yours truly):
E: Are you going to bowl in the tournament Sunday?
H: Well what time is at? I need to do my long run sometime.
E: Long run? What are your talking about.
H: You know, running, for a long time. For training.
E: What the hell marathon are you training for now.
H; Fargo . . . and Grandma's.
E: Thanks for sharing.
H: Don't you read my blog???
Move over Dr. Phil, I've got this ALL figured out.